Oma
Our beloved grandmother on Joel's side (his mother's mother) passed away a week ago this day. The funeral was this past Saturday. She was Joel's last remaining grandparent.
She was a dedicated wife to her military husband. She took her three children to Japan and Germany and missed deaths of relatives in America because she was abroad. My mother in law says of her, "She was a good mother, but before she was a mother, she was a wife."
Personally, I had come to know her more from our visits with Annie. "Oma" is the Japanese word for grandmother, and she would tell me a bit about what it was like to live abroad. She loved seeing Annie and when placing Annie in her lap, she would heave and say, "Whew, you're full of rocks, aren'tcha?" We visited on the back porch eating chili or sharing cookies that I had brought while Aunt Nancy took care of Oma's needs during her last days.
We will keep good memories of her smiling face in our minds even though our hearts are weighed down with grief.
